2 lives we live.

Whichever life you live make sure you don't violate the rules, regulations and obligations of the other life.If you never knew we live 2 lives, the societal kind of living and our own kind of living which at all times go hand in hand and at some points you live one at a time, wait i don't mean that you die dah,what i mean hear is that we all tend to conform to the societal way of living to fit in the society. society would expect all of us to behave in accordance to societal norms that's to say we go to school, have good and big houses big cars have a family with moral uprightness, yah thats living to societal life expectations, if i asked some of you what kind of life they would want to live most of you would prefer our own way of living to societal one since if it were me i wouldn't have gone to school especially college i would have asked for that money and now i would be having more than ten years experience in my business, but since the society wants you to go to the university and grade you as learned and responsible one has to go even if its against his/her own wish. some of you would have chosen to drop school in primary or high school level but since your parents looks at other children in the neighborhood on their performance and everything they had to impact the same in you.In the same regard i bet some of you wouldn't have gotten married, some marry to impress society and thats the worst part of it.Its better a times we live our own life and camouflage it with the societal way of live just to make sure you remain in the flow.Coming back to my point i would like to urge our super ladies to come out of this closet of societal norms and live their lives a times.some of our African ladies live more of the societal life and even forget their own kind of living, everything you want to explore with them they tell you its bad ,to me killing is the worst thing one should shun away,(and maybe conning someone or stealing but most of these vices are never in the bedroom) anything in the bedroom that is doable do it never ask because you will never learn.Its societal norm that a man supposed to approach a girl in Africa but if you feel a man please go for him never wait because fortune never waits you have to grab that opportunity no matter what-that is the reason i like some of the go getters of our Nairobi city Kenya girls.If you loose that opportunity it never comes someone will have him and you will be singing that to your inner person forever.These things of staying so smart may make you loose a lot. I am very sure some ladies in Kenya will be happy to marry but they wonder how that would happen just because its against our societal norm. What the ****. try live 40% of your life and i assure you full time enjoyment.Ladies wake up men enjoy this freedom in spite the fact that societal norms are followed, the good thing is that no one monitors your own life closely otherwise you would have heard wonders.Thank you.