You might not be aware of it at the time, but when you're on a date with a man he'll constantly be evaluating your pros and cons every way he can. Partly, this just means trying to work out how big your breasts are ,the lusciousness of your lips and whether you're likely to sleep with him or not. But it also means he'll be assessing your relationship potential. For most people, It's not easy to make this judgment on the first date, but to someone like me it isn’t rocket science any more.…
Do you ask questions?
I've been on dates with lovely, charming, outstanding ladies who have wowed me with their looks and interesting personalities, until I realized I hadn't told them anything about myself - because they had not asked. I call this kind of ladies passive and this is unsurprisingly common in Uganda and Tanzania. In Kenya most women ask questions concerning ones financial status. This is an indicator that a girl likes herself a bit too much and only ones financial status will hook her in the game. If you don’t ask questions you are living a lot of information unanswered that will probably help you make a better decision. Please be inquisitive but pick on questions that are relevant.
Do you love Babies?
This is a tricky ground,. Some dudes can get scared by the number of babies you would want to make with him, but other dudes will be far more perturbed if you told them that you hate babies. If a girl tells me she doesn't like babies it makes them less possible candidates to mother my children. I know of men who don’t like children but it shouldn’t come from your mouth, let it begin from somewhere in the clouds.
Washroom time
Women spend a long time in the washroom, we know that. But if you stay in there too long, men will start to wonder what the hell is behind the delay. Anything over eight minutes and our imaginations will start running wild. The only thing more wild is if your washroom breaks is too brief. If you’re back in your seat within 45 seconds, don't expect any man to share food with you.
Cooking
Do you love Babies?
This is a tricky ground,. Some dudes can get scared by the number of babies you would want to make with him, but other dudes will be far more perturbed if you told them that you hate babies. If a girl tells me she doesn't like babies it makes them less possible candidates to mother my children. I know of men who don’t like children but it shouldn’t come from your mouth, let it begin from somewhere in the clouds.
Washroom time
Women spend a long time in the washroom, we know that. But if you stay in there too long, men will start to wonder what the hell is behind the delay. Anything over eight minutes and our imaginations will start running wild. The only thing more wild is if your washroom breaks is too brief. If you’re back in your seat within 45 seconds, don't expect any man to share food with you.
Cooking
If we think a woman can't cook - even if we've just met her - we will subconsciously start visualizing a lifetime of fast foods which to me and many a man is not healthy food. Ladies please also note this, it’s so lovely to eat food cooked by your partner as it makes one have a feeling of ‘’she can make a nice wife ‘’ at least one has a guarantee of delicious food every day.
Cats and Dogs
Don't get me wrong, I like cats and dogs too, I used to have a dog I nicknamed Rex after being addicted to this programmed that used to air on KBC TV’’ Rex the man’s best friend’’. And I like girls that like cats and dogs. But there's such a thing as liking cats too much. When a girl is more interested in her pet than any human, including herself, it sets alarm bells ringing.
Cats and Dogs
Don't get me wrong, I like cats and dogs too, I used to have a dog I nicknamed Rex after being addicted to this programmed that used to air on KBC TV’’ Rex the man’s best friend’’. And I like girls that like cats and dogs. But there's such a thing as liking cats too much. When a girl is more interested in her pet than any human, including herself, it sets alarm bells ringing.
Relationship history
it’s obviously never a great idea to rumble on about your numerous ex-boyfriends and ex-girl friends, but I was equally put off when a girl I was seeing told me she had never been in relationship longer than three months - and she was 28. It makes you wonder… why not? Girls take care of this it mostly look bad on your side than men.
Buying drinks
Guys buy drinks on dates. It's not necessarily fair, but it’s fine and we're happy to do it. But if a girl doesn't at least offer to get a round in - and be prepared to buy them if we accept - we'll put you down and note you as a gold digger, have I just said a gold what? No its good for a man to buy drinks on your first date let me not mislead you but if you are open minded and sufficiently philanthropic please buy and men will always appreciate, I have appreciated a couple of times.
Desperation.
This can be detected in several ways. As a recent example, a girl told me she had turned to online dating after being single for a month. I instantly perceived this as her desperation to always be in a relationship, and from there I really knew something was boiling in the distance. To me such lady spells trouble because she will always be on your neck wanting to see you every time and bags of accusations will be on you back. Men tend to avoid desperate ladies so if you are one please keep it invisible.
Family resemblances
supposedly, many of us are subconsciously attracted to people who resemble our parents. But it's best to keep this under wraps. "You remind me of my brother" or "you're a bit like my dad" is not what men want to hear. I have met ladies who said I reminded them of their brothers and dads and what was ringing in my mind was whether she hates her brother, dad or whoever it was I remind her of, In a nutshell keep that in yourself and let that be between you and yourself. AMEN.
it’s obviously never a great idea to rumble on about your numerous ex-boyfriends and ex-girl friends, but I was equally put off when a girl I was seeing told me she had never been in relationship longer than three months - and she was 28. It makes you wonder… why not? Girls take care of this it mostly look bad on your side than men.
Buying drinks
Guys buy drinks on dates. It's not necessarily fair, but it’s fine and we're happy to do it. But if a girl doesn't at least offer to get a round in - and be prepared to buy them if we accept - we'll put you down and note you as a gold digger, have I just said a gold what? No its good for a man to buy drinks on your first date let me not mislead you but if you are open minded and sufficiently philanthropic please buy and men will always appreciate, I have appreciated a couple of times.
Desperation.
This can be detected in several ways. As a recent example, a girl told me she had turned to online dating after being single for a month. I instantly perceived this as her desperation to always be in a relationship, and from there I really knew something was boiling in the distance. To me such lady spells trouble because she will always be on your neck wanting to see you every time and bags of accusations will be on you back. Men tend to avoid desperate ladies so if you are one please keep it invisible.
Family resemblances
supposedly, many of us are subconsciously attracted to people who resemble our parents. But it's best to keep this under wraps. "You remind me of my brother" or "you're a bit like my dad" is not what men want to hear. I have met ladies who said I reminded them of their brothers and dads and what was ringing in my mind was whether she hates her brother, dad or whoever it was I remind her of, In a nutshell keep that in yourself and let that be between you and yourself. AMEN.
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